Believe it or not, Rhonnel and I only had one petty quarrel in our 11 years together. We do not fight it is because we always compromise and we do not blame each other for any mistakes committed. Maturity is a big factor in marriage and it is good that we were both at the right age when we got married. Boring? Of course not! We still manage to keep the candles burning; surprises, kissing, hugging, saying “I love you’s”, but still, there is room for a love resolution.
Rhonnel was always bragging me about going out, just the two of us, but no one will look after RJ so it is always remained as a plan. Last December when my Mom stayed in our house for several days, we took advantage of that. We went out and had a couple bottles of beer each at Seafood Island in Cubao. There was an acoustic playing the 80s and 90s music. We can both relate to the music and enjoyed it while we were talking and reminiscing. We had our coffee at Starbucks after. It was already 2am when we decided to stay somewhere where no one can disturb us…wink!
We enjoy going out with RJ but for the couple to be alone for a while is different. We had the chance to be nostalgic and looked back on our foolishness and escapades while hugging each other. That was a lovely night. And so, that will be our love life resolution…to go out once in a while, just the two of us.